Marie Kondo’s tidying tips: organising expert reveals the six basic rules of tidying

Japanese organising consultant Marie Kondo is a tidying guru, founder of the KonMari method, which has become notorious for its demand that followers get rid of anything — from socks to photographs — that doesn't "spark joy".

The method extends beyond that somewhat quirky exhortation, however, with a full system, which Kondo promises will create a permanent change and keep your home tidy for life, if followed correctly.

Tidyers should work through their possessions category by category, rather than room by room, in a set order and should complete the entire project in one go, rather than bit by bit over time.

In this way, Kondo promises you can get — and maintain — a truly tidy home.

Here are Kondo's top six tips on how to overhaul your belongings — and keep your home clutter-free for good...

1. COMMIT YOURSELF TO TIDYING UP

The KonMari Method may seem a little hard. It does require time and effort.

Believe in yourself. Once you have made up your mind, all you need to do is to apply the right method.

2. IMAGINE YOUR IDEAL LIFESTYLE

Think about what kind of house you want to live in and how you want to live in it. In other words, describe your ideal lifestyle. If you like drawing, sketch out what it looks like.

If you prefer to write, describe it in a notebook. You can also cut out photos from magazines. You would rather start tidying right away, would you? That is precisely why so many people suffer rebound after tidying up.

When you imagine your ideal lifestyle, you are actually clarifying why you want to tidy and identifying the kind of life you want to live once you have finished.

The tidying process thus represents a huge turning point in a person’s life. So seriously consider the ideal lifestyle to which you aspire.

3. FINISH DISCARDING FIRST

One characteristic of people who never seem to finish tidying up is that they attempt to store everything without getting rid of anything. When things are put away, a home will look neat on the surface, but if the storage units are filled with unnecessary items, it will be impossible to keep them organized, and this will inevitably lead to a relapse.

The key to success in tidying is to finish discarding first. You can only plan where to store your things and what to store them in once you’ve decided what to keep and what to discard, because only then will you have an accurate grasp of how much actually needs to be stored.

Thinking about where to store things, or worrying about whether you can fit everything in, will only distract you from the job of discarding, and you will never finish.

That would be a terrible waste; so instead, consider any storage solutions made during the discarding process as temporary and focus all your attention on sorting the next category. This is the secret to getting the job done quickly.

4. TIDY BY CATEGORY, NOT LOCATION

One of the most common mistakes people make is to tidy room by room.

This approach doesn’t work because people think they have tidied up when in fact they have only shuffled their things around from one location to another or scattered items in the same category around the house, making it impossible to get an accurate grasp of the volume of things they actually own.

The correct approach is to tidy by category. This means tidying up all the things in the same category in one go. For example, when tidying the clothes category, the first step is to gather every item of clothing from the entire house in one spot.

This allows you to see objectively exactly how much you have. Confronted with an enormous mound of clothes, you will also be forced to acknowledge how poorly you have been treating your possessions.

It’s very important to get an accurate grasp of the sheer volume for each category.

5. FOLLOW THE RIGHT ORDER

It is crucial not only to tidy by category but also to follow the correct order, which is clothes, books, papers, komono (miscellany), and finally, sentimental items.

Have you ever run across old photos while tidying and found that hours have passed while you were looking at them?

This is a very common blunder, and it clearly illustrates the point of tidying in the proper order, which is designed specifically to help you hone your ability to distinguish what sparks joy.

Clothes are ideal for practising this skill, while photos and other sentimental items are the epitome of what you should not touch until you have perfected it.

6. ASK YOURSELF IF IT SPARKS JOY

The criterion for deciding what to keep and what to discard is whether or not something sparks joy. When deciding, it’s important to touch it, and by that, I mean holding it firmly in both hands as if communing with it.

Pay close attention to how your body responds when you do this. When something sparks joy, you should feel a little thrill, as if the cells in your body are slowly rising.

When you hold something that doesn’t bring you joy, however, you will notice that your body feels heavier.

Remember that you are not choosing what to discard but rather what to keep. Keep only those things that bring you joy.

And when you discard anything that doesn’t, don’t forget to thank it before saying goodbye.

By letting go of the things that have been in your life with a feeling of gratitude, you foster appreciation for, and a desire to take better care of, the things in your life.